Sweet

 Dorothy has had a comfortable day 
Trendy Carol’s Husband came around to visit with a pork steak in hand.
He’s looked after Dorothy everyday I’ve been at work, holiday and college for the past 5 years. 
And I couldn’t stand to watch as he stroked her head gently  and called her his Dotty, and so busied myself with something in the kitchen as he said his tearful goodbyes.


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  1. Anonymous6:46 pm

    There are so many sad and upset people standing beside you and Dorothy at this time John, take succour and strength from us all 🙏. Jan in Castle Gresley

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    1. She’s a popular girl for sure, which is nice as Winifred was a big character to follow

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  2. Anonymous6:47 pm

    Just know when someone far away that’s never met any of you read this, she burst into tears.
    Jackie

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    1. Me , too. love / hugs to all who love your Dorothy and you.

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    2. Anonymous11:11 pm

      You're not alone in that, Jackie. Tina in west oz

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    3. Anonymous2:16 pm

      Same here x
      Alison in Wales x

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  3. Barbara Anne6:53 pm

    I'm so glad Dorothy has had a good day and that she is being brought special treats by her neighbors and friends.
    It is so very hard to say good-bye You know you'll survive and you know how pleased Albert wil be to have his best friend by his side once more. It's just so damn hard to say good-bye.

    lots of hugs

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  4. Reading this with a lump in my throat.

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  5. I don't always get to this blog as quickly as I should, and just now found out about Dorothy. A difficult time not just for you but it seems your friends as well. A salute and a hug to you, John.

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  6. I'm blinking back the tears, here. Darling Dorothy, you've touched more hearts than you'll ever know. I'm glad she's surrounded by those who love her the most. xx

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  7. Poor girl. Loved and cared for. Lucky girl too.

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  8. Anonymous7:29 pm

    Oh, John. Sending love to you and lovely Dorothy. They break our hearts don’t they, but bring so much love and companionship xx

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    1. Anonymous7:29 pm

      From Debbie in London x

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  9. I can only imagine how hard this is. I'm sending you a big hug.

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  10. I’m yet again sending you another little piece of my heart. You and your village are the best things that ever happened to Dorothy.

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  11. Anonymous7:48 pm

    That is very difficult but how lovely for Dorothy. The whole situation is heartbreaking. Hope your face is better, noreen

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    1. I’ve watched some sad scenes in my career, this was one of the saddest

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  12. You are blessed with your friends and neighbors. TC-DH sounds a lovely man. A heart wrenching post .

    And--how is your cold, and your face? Were they from the same bacteria or virus infection? Doing better now? Compresses w epsom salt/ warm water on your face may help [as you no doubt know].

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    1. He is adored by all of the dogs but especially by Dorothy and Roger.
      Mary , loves Trendy Carol

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    2. As for my face, thank you for asking . The swelling is still there but not as graphic as it was originally . I’m on antibiotics until next week

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  13. To me this says Dorothy was being loved whenever
    you couldn't be with her,
    what a gift knowing that is and always will be, Mary

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    1. TRENDY CAROL’s Husband been a real rock to me and the dogs. If it wasn’t for him, I could never of kept all four of them five years ago when I had to go back to full time work

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  14. The Universe will keep Dorothy quite safe I'm certain John xx 💖💗

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    1. No flis I’m afraid the universe won’t be helping anyone

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    2. Anonymous4:47 pm

      Oh no the pest returns. What's brought you back with your ridiculous comments?

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  15. Dorothy knows that you love her enough to give her freedom from pain, freedom from fear.

    You and your pack are loved and have friends in your area and around the world.

    I like to think that she will be met in dog heaven by her canine friends from her village life and around the world.

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  16. Anonymous9:20 pm

    Sending loving thoughts across the pond to you and Dorothy Be strong dear John. Congrats on your future career position. I’ll be saying extra prayers tonight.💞
    Mary in NC

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  17. What a good friend Trendy Carol's Husband has been to you and the dogs. He gave a touching farewell to Dorothy.

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  18. Anonymous9:30 pm

    I’m sure I speak for many here John
    I found this incredibly understated and all rather moving

    Lee

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  19. Anonymous9:39 pm

    Sending love to you and Dorothy. When I read about Trendy Carol’s husband’s visit, and you busying yourself in the kitchen, I remembered a similar event, going next door to say goodbye to my neighbour’s dog Gus. My neighbour told me her husband had gone out on a made up errand, as he was worried we would cry as we cuddled Gus, and he would not be able to hold in his grief. Jean in Winnipeg.

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  20. Anonymous9:59 pm

    So so sorry , lost 2 of these precious beings in the last year so know exactly how your heart must feel♥️♥️

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  21. Just catching up, John. Bad news and good news. Sorry it's not all good.

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  22. How wonderfully loved Dorothy is, I fear I wouldn’t have been able to watch that goodbye either - not without bursting into tears.
    Trendy Carol’s husband sounds as though he has a kind soul

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  23. Traveller11:09 pm

    No words

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  24. Anonymous11:30 pm

    Thank you, John, for sharing Dorothy with us these past years.....and I bid her a fond farewell from afar.....when her time comes. She has been and is loved by so many, I am one of those Dorothy lovers! When we lost our last dog (a beloved Aussie) 2 yrs ago....his end came very suddenly and rather unexpectedly, as Dorothy's is.... our landlord (and neighbor) came to say goodbye also....and I also had to turn away and let them share their thoughts privately. I keep you in my heart, John
    Susan M/ Calif

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  25. So sorry to hear about Dorothy but how lovely to know she was so well loved and looked after when you couldn’t be there. Sending love

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  26. I have always watched my neighbors' dogs. When they knew their dog Sophie's time had come, they called me to come over to say good bye before they took her to the vet one last time. It was the loveliest gesture; I had known her all of her 13 years, and had watched her whenever they traveled. I will never forget that kindness, especially at a time when they were so grieving.

    Dorothy is loved by so many. ♥

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  27. Three cheers for Iwan! (Trendy Carol's husband). Such kindness and such loyalty - beautiful.

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  28. Oh. That gave my heart a wrench, and my eye a tear.

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  29. She's had a good life with you John. And now she gets to be spoiled in what time she has left. Sending hugs to you John.

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  30. Anonymous6:04 am

    What a wonderful man Carol's husband is and how lucky you and Carol are to have him in your lives...I'm not sure if you know this but most people don't have this type of experience. You will get through this difficult time with your wonderful support team. Courage mon vieux !


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  31. I am still in shock and sorry to hear of Dot. I feel like you have not had her long, to me, like you just got her. Here's to spoiling her. she will adore your together time.

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  32. Oh sweetie, I know you will cope but I wish I could spare you the pain. Glad to hear about MIND, but it is heartbreaking. You are a good man.

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  33. I wish I could bring her something delicious and pat her head. You are truly a wonderful person John.

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  34. Anonymous7:41 am

    He has been a true friend to you and the dogs when you desperately needed support to continue alone, and still now every day. What a wonderful person. His goodbye with Dotty is so heart wrenching.

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    1. Anonymous7:42 am

      Sorry not logged in - MarisAna

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  35. This post and all the loving comments are getting me blubbing. Going to have nothing left in me when her time comes, bless her.

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  36. You've reduced me to tears again. Hugs to all of you.

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  37. Crying and sending you and Dorothy hugs and little snoutie kisses. (The hugs are for you, the snout kisses for Dorothy.) It's always so hard when the critters must leave us.

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  38. And congrats on MIND!

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  39. My dear John, my heart goes out to you and Dorothy. Heartbreaking. I'm sending you hugs and all my best wishes.

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  40. Thinking of you, John. Glad Dorothy sounds peaceful and cared for.

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  41. I'm noticing that my comments don't seem to be appearing John dear, so trying again today.
    Just want you to know I'm thinking of you and sweet Dorothy from across the pond and sending love at this hard time.
    Mary in NC

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  42. You are giving Dorothy a beautiful goodbye, John. You are clearly an expert at helping the dying pass peacefully. I'm sending a big hug.

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  43. weaver2:57 pm

    Surrounded by love, gentle words, tasty treats and affection from humans and doggy friends - she is going gently into that good-night John. As it should be.

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  44. These darling creatures leave such pawprints on our hearts. I have always had a soft spot for Dorothy and I'm so sorry that her time has come. Sending you warm wishes and a huge hug to dear Dotty.

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  45. Tears here too, knowing what you are going through. Hugs fors weet Dorothy.
    Congratulations on the new job.

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  46. I'm glad that you won't be alone in missing her xx

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