I'm in a nearby town looking at properties I may be able to afford. Im at that " amble down street" stage - getting the flavour
The lay of the land.
Having said this Im all hot and bothered as it's a hot day and my bladder is playing up and is in need of hydrating
Ive found a bookshop cafe to recharge in.
There is a psychology-esque going around my head today which goes
Their teeth fit your wounds
I think it refers to the phenomenon of repeating relationships with people who have similar traits to those who have psychologically hurt you in the past, (often significent others and parents)
Recently I have reconnected with a dear friend with whom I share the same "wounds" from childhood. Im not being dramatic here, its just a statement of fact that we had experienced unhappy times. The only difference between us was that mine was a cushioned childhood buffered by siblings and grandparents whilst theirs was more isolated and therefore oh so more difficult to deal with.
Im meandering I know as this train of thought weaves around my head , but it echoes a moment in last night's Game of Thrones where Therion the dwarf thanks his much more handsome and normal statured brother for being kind to him during a unhappy childhood
Teeth and wounds, wounds and wounds...we all have them
The lay of the land.
Having said this Im all hot and bothered as it's a hot day and my bladder is playing up and is in need of hydrating
Ive found a bookshop cafe to recharge in.
There is a psychology-esque going around my head today which goes
Their teeth fit your wounds
I think it refers to the phenomenon of repeating relationships with people who have similar traits to those who have psychologically hurt you in the past, (often significent others and parents)
Recently I have reconnected with a dear friend with whom I share the same "wounds" from childhood. Im not being dramatic here, its just a statement of fact that we had experienced unhappy times. The only difference between us was that mine was a cushioned childhood buffered by siblings and grandparents whilst theirs was more isolated and therefore oh so more difficult to deal with.
Im meandering I know as this train of thought weaves around my head , but it echoes a moment in last night's Game of Thrones where Therion the dwarf thanks his much more handsome and normal statured brother for being kind to him during a unhappy childhood
Teeth and wounds, wounds and wounds...we all have them
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ReplyDeleteWe wouldn't be human if we didn't John. x
ReplyDeleteWow. I may have heard that expression before but if so, I had forgotten it. And yet, it is so perfect.
ReplyDeleteJust catching up with you. Love the goslings. Wishing you lots of luck with finding a new home. Wherever it is, you will make it home and make new friends xx
ReplyDeleteIndeed we do, but recognising the fact is a step in breaking the cycle. Good luck with the househunting. No matter if it's small, it will be all yours.
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DeleteI'm not house hunting I'm just doing research if the worst is to happen
DeleteI hope your next home is near Trelawnyd so you can keep your current friends and connections as well as make new friends and connections in your new surroundings. You'll know your new home when you see it and look around.
ReplyDeleteI had never heard the expression you used about wounds and teeth. It's apt, but I find it sad.
Hugs!
Well-said and written. And sometimes the teeth marks are our own teeth.
ReplyDeleteI use a form of mental sticking plaster for my old wounds but it does sometimes fall off.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with mooching around houses, and I hope it doesn't come to that. Y
ReplyDeleteI don't want to be nosy and pry but I am finding the house hunting/staying put posts a bit confusing. I think you'd given us the impression that you could stay at the cottage, looking at these comments others seem to be confused too.
ReplyDeleteAre you able to give us some clarification? Obviously not the nitty gritty of your situation but a little explanation. I hope all goes well whatever you do or don't do.
I will let u all know in due time xx
Delete'Teeth and wounds' is apropos when thinking about some of the choices my family members and I have made in life.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, I think I may have bitten a few people.
ReplyDeleteTeeth and wounds is usually a more forensic thing, after the event. Blame the dog, blame the bullet, blame the postman for bringing bad news.
ReplyDeleteteeth fitting wounds is sadly apt.
ReplyDeleteA bookshop sounds good though...and even better with a cafe
As Weaver said ... we wouldn't be human if we didn't have wounds. Some of us just have more than others, and yes toxicity in an upbringing makes for the deepest and sometimes most hidden wounds
ReplyDeleteI’d heard that phrase before. Thanks for the reminder. It’s very powerful. As I consider it, I don’t think I’ve found (or at least held onto) people in my life whose teeth fit my wounds. Small favors.
ReplyDeleteI like that expression and it's so true. My wounds involve alcoholics.
ReplyDeleteTake care John.
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