tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post2012856335060876521..comments2024-03-29T13:08:23.458+00:00Comments on Going Gently: Being UnfaithfulJohn Going Gentlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.comBlogger115125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-42469532388367234822020-09-05T09:12:26.951+00:002020-09-05T09:12:26.951+00:00Am here to say a big thank you to Dr Sam for his g...Am here to say a big thank you to Dr Sam for his great powerful love spell and his great spirits for saving my relationship. No one would have believe that I and my ex will ever come back together again lovers. But this great spell caster united us in just 48 hours. Dr Sam is truly a real and honest online spell caster. 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Osasu <br />Elizabeth Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749813398631657505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-24398860791136765942020-03-30T00:01:42.064+00:002020-03-30T00:01:42.064+00:00Greetings from Texas. i want to give thanks to dr ...Greetings from Texas. i want to give thanks to dr Azaka for bringing back my ex husband with his love spell, No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like this, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Trust is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person,It was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. 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Contact Dr Azaka on whatsapp +2349059389105 Or Email azakaspelltemple@gmail.comAlomio Sheeranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16950800998054263700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-5413078751852029852020-02-29T10:56:01.950+00:002020-02-29T10:56:01.950+00:00I've been the cheatee in the sense that my bes...I've been the cheatee in the sense that my best friend's boyfriend hit on me incessantly and I succumbed to the flattery. I learned a lot about myself through that awful experience but I was young and low in self esteem and was a target for him. He treated none of us well and we came out of it better. Bless her.<br />In my mid 20s I found out that my partner of several years had cheated when I was away -our relationship was really on the skids anyway but I was devastated by it (I suspect it wasn't the only time either) and so when I had the opportunity to return the favour, I did. With a fellow contestant on a game show. We clicked and we played away. Sordid but vindicating. That was all half a lifetime ago and these days I get hit on fairly regularly and I have absolutely no desire to follow through. I am built for monogamy, and am content with that. but also, my self esteem and sense of integrity is now a lot stronger and I have forgiven that daft young thing always looking for love in the wrong places. We live and we learnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-29779415906302963592020-02-23T11:32:08.682+00:002020-02-23T11:32:08.682+00:00How I Got My Ex Husband Back..Am so excited to sha...How I Got My Ex Husband Back..Am so excited to share my testimony of a real spell caster who brought my husband back to me. My husband and I have been married for about 6 years now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone else. 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Email him at: wealthylovespell@gmail.com. or whatsapp him on: +2348105150446Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08051332617580716186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-3067800034293427762020-02-21T20:00:07.426+00:002020-02-21T20:00:07.426+00:00I wasn't unfaithful as a young person, but did...I wasn't unfaithful as a young person, but did start new relationships after ending old ones rather quickly. I just couldn't seem to allow myself to be single for very long, you know? Beahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07886227825064266814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-1505311173894613942020-02-21T11:45:16.804+00:002020-02-21T11:45:16.804+00:00My husband cheated while i was pregnant and of cou...My husband cheated while i was pregnant and of course, it was my fault for being difficult. I spent a lot of it in hospital I might add.<br />Then I receive phone calls from another lady 'friend' of his. Finally He acquires yet another lady friend. Which was when I lost the plot and booted him out of the house. He moved in with that trollop. That turned out to be my fault as well.<br />He marries her and has a child. Then low and behold he acquires another lady friend. I found out about her and told him to grow up. Apparently Trollop blamed me for not telling her!!. So he runs out and has another child with that 'hussy'.<br />So three children by three different women, I'm waiting to be blamed for that one.<br />Men!!ShellyChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00705808838009726399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-31297082179524696102020-02-21T11:13:49.672+00:002020-02-21T11:13:49.672+00:00Is it a lie or a secret? Not sharing this personal...Is it a lie or a secret? Not sharing this personal information with your partner to me is more a secret. I have been married more than 50 years. A long time ago I had a brief affair but it was more that I was listened to by my lover. It came about because I was convinced to have a pregnancy (with my husband) terminated by my doctor due to my Gynacologist being absent on a study trip and then my husband had a vasectomy without consulting me as it was 'in your best interest'- no doubt influenced again by this GP. Post all of that I received a letter from the Gyno(who I had written to) stating that with proper care the pregnancy should be fine as the issues I had in the previous pregnancy could be managed - obviously it was way too late. My husband was unresponsive and took the position just to get on with things - look after the children we have & don't dwell on what you don't have (a baby that I had ripped reluctantly from my womb)I was devastated, grieving and feeling oh so guilty. I betrayed my baby and felt betrayed due to someone else not wanting the responsibility of caring for a difficult pregnancy. I turned to a friends brother who was a good listener and was understanding but in a way he wanted something too. So my affair was not so much of love or lust but a place I fell into when no one else would listen or nurture my hurt. I never told my husband and he never asked even though I left the marriage for a short while - my children became my way back and after a while my husband and I reconnected on all levels but one - our lost child. So my infidelity is my secret wrapped up in pain of loss and lack of comprehension of just how much I suffered the loss of that baby and how our lives were changed by others without a hint of compassion or consultation. That pain of terminating the pregnancy is as real today even though I have 'got on with things'- it is far more real to me than my infidelity which probably stopped me from killing myself at the time!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-68741846037760793492020-02-21T10:43:54.195+00:002020-02-21T10:43:54.195+00:00You know what? At the time, those seemed the be th...You know what? At the time, those seemed the be the only alternatives. I was too much of a coward to leave the man I cheated on and way too comfortable to leave the one who cheated on with me. Loved them both though. And I think they loved me.<br />Only good thing, I guess, is that I have never really broken up any relationship, even with those affairs. The affairs ended and I have good memories of those men. They kept on going with their lives and I with mine.<br />I really don't regret those relationships, though. We went into them with open eyes. We really never discussed our motivations to get into them. It was clear for us that they were not to last forever, though they were not short-lived (one lasted around four years, the other around seven...).<br />They say we should only regret what we have not done and i guess I would have to agree...<br /><br />XOXOSixpence Notthewiserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11230453585589265578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-59565071704755978152020-02-21T10:13:55.803+00:002020-02-21T10:13:55.803+00:00tried it once many moons ago in a tit for tat mood...tried it once many moons ago in a tit for tat mood , my husband was endlessly unfaithful and liked to tell me how much better in bed they were and how much more attractive, didnt feel an ounce of guilt. Our marriage lasted 22 years somehow. Never felt the urge in my current partnership 15 years and counting kate steeperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05772776996207438308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-76443722309517504122020-02-21T04:10:14.027+00:002020-02-21T04:10:14.027+00:00A co-worker and I shared a fairly strong attractio...A co-worker and I shared a fairly strong attraction when I was in my mid-30's. We worked well together, always got good results. We were the golden team at work. I was also very strongly attracted to him sexually and I knew the interest was mutual. But we were both married, and I believe in marriage being for better or worse. I walked away. I quit the job and stayed in my marriage. That was part of the reason that it was such a sucker punch a few years later when my ex-husband left me for the client that he'd begun an affair with. My marriage for life ended in divorce despite my decision to honor it. Unfortunately, I don't have a profound quip to make it all see well and good anyway. It was just a sucker punch.Lisa https://www.blogger.com/profile/09324961653370110887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-90391125090752829372020-02-21T02:07:46.420+00:002020-02-21T02:07:46.420+00:00I have been married to the same wonderful women fo...I have been married to the same wonderful women for the last 54 years, can't imagine disrespecting her now or in the past. Why get married if you feel the need to cheat.AZDavehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00413050761689677200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-54090194572729910642020-02-21T00:41:52.777+00:002020-02-21T00:41:52.777+00:00Some people believe their own liesSome people believe their own liesJohn Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-48798257114210267182020-02-20T22:41:17.055+00:002020-02-20T22:41:17.055+00:00Ah, I see I already commented earlier. The comment...Ah, I see I already commented earlier. The comments are a fascinating read.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-87789599276848603902020-02-20T22:35:38.102+00:002020-02-20T22:35:38.102+00:00While it was never discussed, neither of us expect...While it was never discussed, neither of us expected sexual faithfulness and neither of us were for the last 41 years. However, we ensured that any fun outside would not impact our relationship and we would be home in the evening, and mostly, it didn't have an impact. It has mostly been, don't ask, don't tell.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-70193835462259877382020-02-20T20:19:35.718+00:002020-02-20T20:19:35.718+00:00Before we married, my husband, then boyfriend, wen...Before we married, my husband, then boyfriend, went to a unplanned party without me. Got drunk and slept with a so-called friend of mine.<br />My cousin who was at the party, couldn't wait to tell me about it the next day.<br />We split up because of this incident!<br />Got back together within the year and got married.<br />Did l forgive and forget? Hell no!<br />Every time we have a hum-dinger of a row, l bring up the incident,just can't stop myself.<br />Madness it's over 40 years ago and if l didn't forgive and forget why did l go back? Dunno is the answer? Must have loved him <br />As for me, l am a bit of a flirt, but would run a mile at anything other than flirty banter.<br />Perhaps that is why l prefer the company of gay guys, JG included although we have never met.<br />Unsigned to protect the guilty.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-40907107731333199962020-02-20T20:08:12.873+00:002020-02-20T20:08:12.873+00:00Yes I agree when both people in the relationship a...Yes I agree when both people in the relationship are of stable mind but when one isn't it can send them into a temper.I was told we had to leave when anyone had been too friendly with me - male or female.Then again he thought it acceptable to snog a work colleague in the guise of "just a Christmas kiss"x flufAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-86921868699607320232020-02-20T18:35:04.712+00:002020-02-20T18:35:04.712+00:00That should have read 'lives in Wales'. Oo...That should have read 'lives in Wales'. Ooooppps!Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14162015419341845693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-59877759346138155422020-02-20T18:32:46.692+00:002020-02-20T18:32:46.692+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14162015419341845693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-84735589675997609412020-02-20T18:04:25.492+00:002020-02-20T18:04:25.492+00:00Is it not possible for you to leave anyway? You st...Is it not possible for you to leave anyway? You still have your life to live and owe him nothing I'd say.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-46248927257052963402020-02-20T18:01:08.811+00:002020-02-20T18:01:08.811+00:00Yes. However trust was damaged, and still has som...Yes. However trust was damaged, and still has some cracks in it.Elephant's Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650565833097914052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-18871617845925866992020-02-20T17:58:50.138+00:002020-02-20T17:58:50.138+00:00Thank you all for your comments. I have and will r...Thank you all for your comments. I have and will read every comment . But now need to get to work.<br />Your stories are bravely told and refreshingly come from all.persoectives. <br />The final answer, if there could be one? <br />Who knows<br />It would seem that someone always gets hurt when infidelity occurs<br />Somewhere<br />Somehow<br />Someone gets hurtJohn Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-44417725886825212092020-02-20T17:58:32.485+00:002020-02-20T17:58:32.485+00:00I have to say that since I married my second husba...I have to say that since I married my second husband and am happy I've never even thought of looking. I don't think there's anything wrong with window shopping though, just don't buy! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-41849896909891409052020-02-20T17:56:51.100+00:002020-02-20T17:56:51.100+00:00Harsh as this sounds it's another reason among...Harsh as this sounds it's another reason amongst many why I ended my marriage to my ex. He'd treated me like c**p for years and as I reached 40 I couldn't bear it anymore and I also didn't want to be stuck looking after him in his old age. Best decision I ever made. I've been happy with my current husband for 13 years. I'm sad that you didn't walk away Anonymous!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20303812.post-47249219134979050022020-02-20T17:54:31.285+00:002020-02-20T17:54:31.285+00:00My cousins advice was "look but don't tou...My cousins advice was "look but don't touch" xflisnoreply@blogger.com