No Egos

 

Powerhouse Gina and The Velvet Voiced Linda

Well,I’ve said it this morning and I will say it again, that Linda sets the tone when it comes to teamwork. She is the voice of optimism and of sanity and of order, and this morning she rang me to express just how happy she was that the show was a success. Linda is an old hand at smoothing the waters when it comes to teams, but in this case , last night she acknowledged that there were no egos in the production, no personal dramas, just “people getting on with the jobs they needed to do.
“ That is down to you, you set the tone” I told her and I meant it.
A lot of people worked together well last night, and it may sound corny, but even the slightly cynical Jason was caught up in the bon Vivre of the night, likening it a film script. Director Kira was beaming 
And the two readings one by Filapina Nina ( a tribute to her love for wife Chelsea ) and the other by Linda ( A Child’s Christmas in Wales) were incredibly moving.


 The hall was packed, its numbers swelled by the acts and the Gwaenysgor Community Choir, who jumped into the show, filling a major gap in the second half. They closed the show with a bang


My job, was taking tickets and manning the main entrance, which proved to be rather busy given the number of vapers, a drunk from outside who wanted a free admittance and a rather assertive woman who had been blocked in the car park by an audience member. I managed to watch most of the acts but as Imogen finished her Anastasia piece, a messenger note flitted over my iPad screen. 
It was from my cousin Mathew ( my mother’s brother’s son) who said that he was in Rotherham Hospice with his mother Dena, my aunt, and that she had just opened the Christmas Card I had sent her.
I am the only one of the my family to keep in touch with her and although I hadn’t seen her for a decade, this news literally took the wind out of my sails, 
So  I sat quietly, for a bit in the quiet , cold foyer  of the Memorial Hall, 
And folded my hands into my lap, 
And thought of my aunt

As the applause grew and the acts sang their best….

My aunt Dena 





24 comments:

  1. Anonymous12:58 pm

    So happy that all went well last night, bravo. Gigi

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  2. A team rises or falls with its leader. Linda has obviously got the ability to rally the troops with diplomacy and charm. What a fantastic evening!
    You know, only too well, how your cousin must be feeling. Wishing you, your cousin and your aunt love and peace. xx

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  3. What a great turnout! Sounds like a terrific success, John. Well done to all of you!

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  4. Barbara Anne2:26 pm

    How wonderful to hear Linda managed everything so well and the show went well, start to finish! Ta for the videos so we could have a glimpse at the fun and hear a bit.
    I'm so sorry that dear Dena is in hospice care but know she and Mathew were heartened to see the card you sent. Wishing them comfort and peace.
    Enjoy your recovery time.

    Big hugs!

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  5. So glad you keep in touch with Dena. That means a lot. So much life going on in your village.

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  6. Congratulations..job well done! X
    Can I contact you please either by text or email?

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  7. What a marvelous concert! And the hall looks so nicely decorated too. Love the little light-up Xmas trees on some of the tables. Sad news about your Aunt Dena. I'm sure your thoughtful reaching out to maintain contact is extra appreciated at this difficult time for them.

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  8. The community is lucky to have Linda and all the people that stepped up to make an outstanding stage performance. Given this huge success, I suspect there will be more to come.
    Possibly a theater group? We have Concord Players, and they are also successful. One community member is the costume designer, and I tell you her costumes look authentic.
    I am sorry to hear about Dena and hope you will get to visit with her soon.

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  9. All that talent and no egos. Astounding. So sorry about your aunt. Will you be able to visit?

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  10. I'm glad things went so well but I am sorry that your aunt is in hospice.

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  11. How very poignant, it puts everything into perspective doesn't it. At least you know that she will be in the best possible hands, hopefully some as safe as yours are.

    I'm so glad your villages first major Christmas show went down so well. A feat of perfect conception and execution. Well done to everyone that organised it and took part.

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  12. Well, I'm glad your aunt got to hear from you. That must be a source of comfort despite the Hospice news.

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  13. Anonymous5:03 pm

    what a beautiful,magical evening. your village is just so lovely. sorry to hear about your aunt though- i lost my closest aunt last february and miss her everyday even though i wasn't physically able to see her. so glad you kept in touch. lini from petaluma

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  14. That note must have been sobering. Time just keeps moving forward and taking our past with it.
    Thank you for sharing those reels. What a wonderful community event. Congratulations on helping to pull it off.

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  15. That would have been a mood changer, but the night's success could not be spoilt.

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  16. A proper team effort.

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  17. Anonymous12:12 am

    Thanks for reminding us that distant relatives may appreciate a card more than we realize.
    I’m so happy for your talented community. Sharing and visiting enriches this season.
    Bonnie in Minneapolis

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  18. Anonymous8:29 am

    Joy and sadness walking hand in hand. Life in a nutshell.
    weavinfool

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  19. Oh how joy and sadness are sisters, John. I know life is just this, yet, sigh. I think this night was so delicious because of the pure souls involved in it. Sending you much love and Dena Godspeed.

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  20. There are large things and small that make this world a better place. You are so good at both.

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  21. What a splendid night for memories old and new

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  22. It looks as if both of us had successful weekends!

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